Great integrity, terrible PR. April 15, 2011
Posted by ourfriendben in Uncategorized, wit and wisdom.Tags: A Real Life, Back Home, Backwoods Home, Helen Nearing, Laurel's Kitchen, Mother Earth News, Plain, The Plain Reader, Wendell Berry
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Silence Dogood here. Having just posted about Laurel’s Kitchen the other day, I wondered what had become of Laurel and company in the intervening three-plus decades since the book’s original publication and turned to my good friend Google to find out. Google brought up a tangential site for a magazine called A Real Life that featured articles by (or perhaps excerpts from) my heroes Laurel Robertson, Helen Nearing, Wendell Berry, etc. I was getting all excited until I read the daunting words “A Real Life Magazine is no longer being published.”
The magazine, a cottage publication, had managed to hold on, coming out five times a year, for more than five years, surviving through word of mouth. You can still buy back issues or a collection of all 31 issues on their website (http://www.areallife.com/). The site also proclaims that the publisher, Barbara McNally, is “working on a book and hosting A Real Life Retreats.”
This reminds me of a similar and much-loved quarterly that our friend Ben and I, Luddites that we are, subscribed to until it also died, simply called Plain. Its editor/publisher, Scott Savage, also published a book, The Plain Reader, before vanishing from sight. Though the word “Plain” invokes the “plain people,” the Amish and Mennonites, and they and their lifestyles figured prominently in Plain, Mr. Savage and his family chose to become Quakers, yet give up cars, electricity and the like.
How is it that inspiring and helpful publications like Plain and A Real Life fail, when so much trash persists? A PR failure, I’m thinking. Charlie Sheen’s latest bizarrities, the Kardashians’ fashion faux pas, and Lady Gaga’s cheekbones turn up on every computer screen and in every newspaper and news broadcast. But where is the news about people who are doing real good in the world, the Scott Savages, Wendell Berrys, Helen Nearings, Eknath Easwarans and Laurel Robertsons?
Occasionally, a Mother Teresa or an Eckhart Tolle manages to break through the consumerist/sensationalist PR wall, picked up by the Pope or by Oprah and promoted despite their unfashionable appearance and values. Good magazines like the Mother Earth News, Backwoods Home, and Back Home manage to find the means to keep going. Miracles happen.
But miracles, at least in our day, seem to need a basis in practicality to give them momentum. And they need publishers with a great sense for PR. Lacking that—lacking any sense of PR whatever, as far as I can see—publications like Plain and A Real Life are destined to die, despite a loyal fan base. Loyal fans, in the absence of advertising, simply aren’t enough, unless you’re savvy enough to sell ancillary products like mugs and tee-shirts, anthologies, and the like yourself to make up for the shortfall.
The unworldly nature of Plain (and, presumably, of A Real Life) awes me and gives me hope. True, they failed, at least from a financial perspective. But the fact that they began, that they existed, that they had a following, defies all odds. From my vantage point, that makes them a success. Now, if they’d just had some good PR…
‘Til next time,
Silence
Read Wendell Berry. November 13, 2009
Posted by ourfriendben in homesteading, wit and wisdom.Tags: Port William Membership, Port William novels, Wendell Berry, Wendell Berry novels
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Our friend Ben has never been formally introduced to the novelist, poet, farmer, and ethicist Wendell Berry, but he did kick me once. It was at some function Bob Rodale was hosting back in the day, and Wendell Berry was one of the speakers. As he attempted to squeeze through the aisle to his seat, he inadvertently gave the youthful Ben quite a whack in the shin. (And of course apologized immediately.)
Our friend Ben wasn’t sorry to have been kicked. But I was sorry that, instead of apologizing, Wendell Berry didn’t stare me in the eyes with dawning recognition and exclaim, “Why, aren’t you a Simms from Washington County? Your grandaddy Ben Simms was a very fine man.”
This won’t make a whole lot of sense if you’re not familiar with Mr. Berry’s Port William novels, set in a fictional, rural area of Kentucky. In the novels and short stories Wendell Berry has created around what he calls the “Port William Membership,” he has formed a cast of unforgettable characters that stretch in all their myriad connections from the Civil War through the 1970s, and maybe beyond. Some of these characters, like Ptolemy Proudfoot, Burley Coulter, and Old Jack Beechum, seem larger than life; some, like Ben Feltner, seem better than life. But they’re not.
Our friend Ben spent the happiest times of my childhood with my grandparents in Springfield, Kentucky, when it was still just a very rural part of the Bluegrass area, maybe 60 miles from Lexington and 18 from the historic and wonderful town of Bardstown. I spent a lot of time out on my grandparents’ farm, Beechland, and in the tiny town of Springfield, where everyone knew me and my whole history and I could walk as a 7-year-old into any store alone and be greeted warmly and given candy and feel looked after, and in the feed mill where I loved playing with the ears of field corn and the Indian corn while my grandaddy conducted business, and nobody minded my being there.
I loved fishing in our ponds and bringing home our catch and watching my grandaddy gut it and my grandma fry it for our supper. I loved riding over our fields, which stretched beyond my sight, in front of my grandaddy on his big horse, and admiring our mules, and picking fossils out of the river gravel, and petting the calves, and following Mary Jo, the hugely capable wife of our tenant, to admire her big vegetable and flower garden. I loved going with my grandma to her own extensive vegetable and fruit garden to see what was in bloom and what was ripening and what we needed to harvest, and going with her into the pantry and seeing the gleaming jars on the shelves and the African violets in the window.
Most of all, I loved feeling the kindness and the decency and the capability that radiated from my grandaddy like fire from a woodstove, and feeling his sense of our history and connection to the land, and how that connection ran in me and linked me to all the Simmses and the Merritts and Hankses and Montgomerys and Mattinglys and Walls and everyone else who had gone before.
Without Grandaddy, with his abundant, all-encompassing love for and connection to the land and to our people and to everyone else, our neighbors and our animals, I would never have become what I am. Without Grandma, who adored me and cosseted me and still managed to give me the freedom to wander and explore and create, I would never have found the security to rest in myself as I am and to defy and deny the conventions that would otherwise have held me in a loveless marriage of boring toil for pointless gain.
Without the two of them, my grandaddy’s wide and welcoming lap, my grandma’s perennial invitation to join her on their sturdy porch swing, to have a glass of iced tea or lemonade or to smell the nasturtiums in bloom or admire the huge green flower balls of the hydrangea hedge, or to travel in their big old navy-blue Buick Lesabre, smelling of leather and pipe tobacco and any number of other fine, comforting smells, to their favorite restaurant to enjoy our mutual favorite, lamb chops, on a Saturday night, I could never have come into myself. I could never have understood what it meant to become custodian of a piece of land and the place and people and animals that share it with you, to become part of the history of your people and your place on earth. I could never have come to be whole.
All this is something that Wendell Berry understands in his bones and makes evident in his wonderful Port William novels. He creates a host of marvelous characters and breathes authenticity into them, as he does into the places where they live. The novels are unadorned, like their characters, like the farms and stores and homesteads that populate them. People live and love and die and form connections, to each other, to the land. Things go wrong, people suffer, but on a small, believable scale. We, the readers, suffer with their sufferings, and rejoice in their triumphs, also small, but profound even as they are profoundly human.
Like any great writing, Wendell Berry’s Port William novels will change you. I suggest that you start with the first (chronologically), The Memory of Old Jack, and let them carry you on their own momentum from there. You’ll be glad you made the time for them.
Our friend Ben will leave you with a quote from Mr. Berry that I, my grandaddy, and any farmer, gardener, naturalist, or homesteader can wholeheartedly endorse: “What I stand for is what I stand on.” Amen.
What the old can teach us. September 20, 2009
Posted by ourfriendben in wit and wisdom.Tags: Eknath Easwaran, elders, Mother Teresa, Scott and Helen Nearing, Wendell Berry
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Our friend Ben and Silence Dogood often talk about what a shame it is that in America, old people tend to be viewed as embarrassing, useless expenses to be shoved into assisted living or nursing homes and ignored, at least until we can cash in our inheritances.
In other cultures, life wisdom and the veneration due to those who made it possible for us to live are so ingrained that they would not believe the way we treat our own elders—the same way we treat our entire society, as disposable. Pointless. As though life began with us and we have nothing to learn from those who have gone before, once we’ve wrung out any material advantages.
But it’s not just us. One of the most telling stories our friend Ben ever read was set in China. A poor, hardworking farmer spent long, agonizing hours in his fields, trying to grow enough to support his family, while his elderly father snoozed on the porch of the family home. Finally, the farmer couldn’t stand his freeloading father another second. Nailing together a pine box, he hauled it up to the porch and insisted that his father get in and lie down. Once his father had done so, he nailed the top on, roped the box to his donkey, and began to haul it to the nearest cliff. Just as he was about to shove the box over the cliff, he heard his father knocking on the top. “Yes, Father? What is it?” “Son, why are you wasting this box? Why don’t you just take me out and throw me over the edge, and keep the box?” “Why would I want to do that?” “Your children will need this box one day for you.”
Three things came together recently to reinforce the loss we experience when we dismiss our elderly as useless encumbrances. First, our friend Ben and Silence were recently watching the series version of Alexander McCall Smith’s No. 1 Ladies’ Detective Agency series. It reminded us of how much the heroine, Precious Ramotswe, depended on and learned from the patient wisdom of her father, Obed Ramotswe, that good, kind, wise man.
We also admire the wisdom and boundless patience and kindness of one of the great sages of our day, Eknath Easwaran. From his many commentaries, we know that the person who shaped him into the inspiration he became was his grandmother, a very bright but uneducated woman in rural India who lived and learned, then passed her learning on to her high-achieving grandson.
Then today our friend Dolores passed along a poem by Maya Angelou that encapsulated this reverence for the old, not because they were old, but because they had accumulated enough knowledge in their long lives to finally go beyond selfishness and focus on helping others, on sharing. It was no longer “all about me,” but rather about “how can we help?” This is the ultimate transition, the priceless gift that our elders can offer. How can we reject it?!!
Can you think of an old person who’s inspired you with his or her life wisdom, drive, and achievement? For us, there’s Mother Teresa, the great living saint of our own lifetimes. Our own grandparents, our great-aunts and uncles, the elders in Wendell Berry’s fabulous Port William novels, Julia Child, Scott and Helen Nearing, the Amish… These are people who weren’t afraid to grow old, who weren’t afraid to share their hard-earned knowledge, their life wisdom, with the ones to come. Who aren’t afraid, when their time comes, because they believe that growing old and dying is part of the natural cycle and that their best and greatest gift is leaving a roadmap for those who must follow after.
May God bless them, and grant us the good sense to cherish and learn from them while we can.
Eat wisely. July 18, 2009
Posted by ourfriendben in Ben Franklin, gardening, homesteading, wit and wisdom.Tags: Ben Franklin, Benjamin Franklin, food security, Wendell Berry, World War II posters
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No, this is not about dieting, so you can either stop reading right now if you’re hoping for the latest miracle diet, or keep on reading if the mere thought of yet another miracle diet is enough to make you go ballistic (or bulimic). Instead, it’s about how we can use the wisdom of the past to inform our lives today and make them better.
Our friend Ben’s cousin Linda sent me an e-mail this morning with a whole bunch of reproductions of World War II posters. This was both interesting and poignant, since some of us remember our grandparents’, great-grandparents’, or maybe even parents’ involvement in the war. (Our friend Ben feels that it is most tellingly evoked, especially insofar as it touched the lives of those who remained at home, in many of Wendell Berry’s Port William novels. You should be reading them anyway.)
Many of these posters urged people to buy war bonds, refrain from disclosing troop movements and other sensitive information in order to protect troops’ lives (something our friend Ben feels that today’s news services might attempt to keep in mind), or, of course, join the Army, Navy, or Air Force. But our friend Ben was most struck by one poster that was about food. It said “Where our men are fighting, our food is fighting. Buy wisely—cook carefully—store carefully—use leftovers.”
Today, we are still a nation at war, something none of us should ever forget for so much as a minute. But recession, not war, threatens most of us on the home front. We are battling personal poverty (or insolvency, for those who can’t bear the stigma of poverty), and many of us are fighting it by attempting to become more self-sufficient and more responsible about our everyday choices.
In these tough times, the advice from that poster rings true: Buy wisely. Cook carefully. Store carefully. Use leftovers.
As our hero and blog mentor Ben Franklin would say, “Waste not, want not.”
Read ’em and reap, part two. March 19, 2008
Posted by ourfriendben in gardening, wit and wisdom.Tags: Blotanical, books, Elizabeth Lawrence, gardening, Ken Thompson, Nancy Ondra, Wendell Berry
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Our friend Ben is vacationing in North Carolina this week, so my opportunities to check in on the blogosphere are somewhat limited by a disinclination to appear rude to my hosts. However (ahem), a quick spin through the wonderful world of garden blogging this morning yielded such a rich reward that I have to share what I found in just a few minutes:
Emma at Fluffius Muppetus had a wonderful post on British scientist and writer Ken Thompson and his new book, No Nettles Required. And of course she had to mention his two previous books, An Ear to the Ground and Compost, so now I have three on my must-get list. (Thanks, Emma!)
Benjamin (gotta love that name) at The Deep Middle posted a paean to one of my heroes, Wendell Berry. Our friend Ben ranted on about how Berry’s Port William novels were must-reads in the first installment of “Read ’em and reap,” but Benjamin is discussing his excellent and thoughtful nonfiction works. And of course he had to mention an author and book I’d never heard of (thanks, Benjamin), so now I have yet another book to add to the Everest-like pile: Linda Hogan’s Dwellings.
There was also a post from Don at An Iowa Garden reminding us of a great Southern garden writer, Elizabeth Lawrence, and the ongoing efforts to preserve her garden for our continued delight, and to help us stand in her place and see what she saw as she was writing her classic books like The Little Bulbs.
Finally, Kathy at Cold Climate Gardening reminded us all that Nancy Ondra’s latest book, Foliage, just won an American Horticultural Society award. Nan’s a good friend of our friend Ben, and I can attest first-hand that she’s a wonderful writer and an exceptional gardener. And she writes from experience, which makes her books pearls beyond price. You’ll find links to them all on her blog, Hayefield.
So, yes, books and books and ever more wonderful books. But our friend Ben wants to put in a good word for the blogs themselves as well. There’s a wealth of great writing, useful information, reviews of new stuff, and just plain fun out there in the gardening blogosphere. No time to try to find them all? Actually, someone has done it for you. Google “Blotanical” and you’ll find links to over 500 gardening blogs, plus a constantly updated list of new posts, all just a click away. It’s a relaxing and educational (and, alas, occasionally humbling, in our friend Ben’s case) way to start the day.